Women of Myth: Persephone

Sweet Nothings Holiday 2016 Women of Myth: Persephone. Photo (c) Michi RezinSweet Nothings Holiday 2016 Women of Myth: Persephone. Photo (c) Michi RezinSweet Nothings Holiday 2016 Women of Myth: Persephone. Photo (c) Michi Rezin

It really annoys me that when we think of Persephone (or Proserpina in the Roman pantheon), it’s most often in the context of The Rape of Persephone, an event which has inspired men to make some admittedly jaw-dropping art, but art that celebrates and memorializes Persephone at her most powerless, most vulnerable, and most scared. It’s a great excuse for dudes to paint or sculpt a young, nubile, naked woman, and many of the said dudes have seized the opportunity and run with it (although props to Rosetti for painting her fully clothed). Great art is great and all, but the event depicted is undeniably horrifying.

In Greek mythology Persephone is the daughter of Ceres, the goddess of grain and agriculture. Gods like Ceres and Persephone (Mother and Maiden) appear in many ancient cults and religions, and the Persephone figure is always connected both to Spring and fertility as well as to death and the Underworld. In the Greek and Roman traditions, Ceres refuses all suitors for Persephone, and mother and daughter live happily together. The earth reflects their happiness, and harvests are full and plentiful. One day Hades (brother both to Ceres and to Zeus, the king of the gods) rides out from the Underworld in his chariot drawn by black horses. He catches sight of Persephone, who has wandered away from Ceres and plays alone in a field. He falls in love with her at first sight and kidnaps her, dragging her down below the earth to become his queen.

Sweet Nothings Holiday 2016 Women of Myth: Persephone. Photo (c) Michi Rezin

Ceres, frantic with grief and worry at the disappearance of her daughter, refuses to visit Mount Olympus or to allow the earth to produce fruits or grains until she can learn Persephone’s fate. She roams the earth, searching and weeping salt tears, and a desert spreads in her wake. As famine and despair take hold of the world, Helios, the sun, finally tells Ceres what he witnessed the day Persephone disappeared. An enraged Ceres rushes to Mount Olympus to beg Zeus for her daughter’s return. Overwhelmed by prayers from famished mortals as well as entreaties from the other gods, Zeus agrees to persuade his brother to free Persephone. Hades is unwilling to release his queen, and he tricks her into eating six pomegranate seeds, knowing that those who have eaten the food of the dead can never return to the living. As neither Ceres nor Hades will relinquish their claim on Persephone, a compromise is reached: Persephone is permitted to live again upon the earth for six months of the year, returning to the Underworld for six months in turn. When Persephone walks among the living, Ceres rejoices, and the earth brings forth plants and flowers and fruits and grains. When Persephone returns to Hades, Ceres grieves, and the earth grows cold and barren.

Sweet Nothings Holiday 2016 Women of Myth: Persephone. Photo (c) Michi Rezin

This story has some serious ick factor, and unlike some Tumblr artists I came across when I was researching this post, I had exactly zero interest in depicting the marriage of Hades and Persephone as a “good girl gone bad” story, or as the story of a straight-laced girl who needs a walk on the dark side to really feel complete, or as a story with Persephone as the Ana to Hades’ Christian Grey. Hades is her uncle, he steals her away from her life, he tricks her out of her freedom, she has to return to be his wife in the land of the dead every year, and she has no say in the matter. That’s fucked up.

I also had no interest in portraying her at the moment of capture, see my first paragraph. It’s disappointing to me that the only time Persephone is a main character is during her capture and sort-of rescue, but those aren’t her only appearances throughout Greek mythology and literature. In her role as queen of the Underworld she appears frequently in other myths and texts, a figure of terror and awe. She is the queen who carries out curses upon the souls of the dead, and her beauty and power inspire devotion and fear in equal measure. Her yearly resurrection is a symbol of hope, assurance that death is not the end of all things.

I wondered what would it be like, to be a girl, and free, and then a queen, and captive. To gain your freedom and return to the light, to your home, to your family, knowing that in six months you would descend beneath the earth once more. Would darkness ever be really dark again, and would light ever be wholly without shadow? Fresh and blooming things would be haunted by promise of future decay, and the darkness of the Underworld would never be permanent, since there is divine assurance that a shaft of light will break through to lead you back up to the sun. As the riotous colors of Spring and Summer give way to the fading leaves of Autumn, how would you prepare for Winter?

sweet-nothings-holiday-2016-persephone-5Sweet Nothings Holiday 2016 Women of Myth: Persephone. Photo (c) Michi Rezin

2016 has been a dark year, and it genuinely looks like we have a dark Winter ahead of us, both literally and metaphorically. I’ve felt a lot of despair and worry in the last few months, as well as some self-recrimination for things I have done, and for things I have left undone. Thinking about Persephone, about the symbol of Spring who ventures into the darkness, makes me wonder about what I’m taking into the darkness with me. Am I taking only my despair, or is there work I can be doing, that I should be doing, that will bring light, both to myself and to the people around me?

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14 Comments on Women of Myth: Persephone

  1. Argie
    December 5, 2016 at 8:40 am (6 years ago)

    What an amazing description. Your writing is intense, crisp, and thought-provoking. The photography is also evocative and punctuates the narrative perfectly.

    Thank you for this.

  2. The Lingerie Lesbian
    December 5, 2016 at 9:58 am (6 years ago)

    You know how I feel about how amazing these photos are… and I loved the corresponding text! Definitely a complicated character to embody. Am I allowed to think these are getting even better every year?

  3. Suzanne Forbes
    December 5, 2016 at 11:36 am (6 years ago)

    Thank you for this beautiful post. Thank you for your beauty, and for your words; they are powerful and bright at this dark time.

  4. Lee Rivers
    December 5, 2016 at 12:35 pm (6 years ago)

    When I opened a pomegranate for the first time, the first thing I said was, “How did Persephone manage to eat only six of the seeds?!”

    Wonderful, thoughtful writing.

    • Sweets
      December 6, 2016 at 12:51 am (6 years ago)

      Pomegranate seeds are DELICIOUS, I am completely with you. Thank you as always for your support and incredibly kind words

  5. Erica of A Sophisticated Pair
    December 5, 2016 at 1:06 pm (6 years ago)

    Wow! Just wow! I love that you are doing women of myth this year. 🙂 I took some classics classes in college and have always found the subject fascinating. Like you, I find there are often renditions of women at their lowest or most exploited. Greek mythology did not fair well for most women characters, but there are still some amazing stories to be told. Looking forward to rest of the series!

  6. denocte
    December 5, 2016 at 3:23 pm (6 years ago)

    I’m crying. Love.

  7. Rare.Device
    December 5, 2016 at 11:33 pm (6 years ago)

    Gosh, this is absolutely beautiful. Your reading of the troubling parts of Persephone’s myth is spot on, as (unfortunately) is its allegorical reference to our current times. I look forward to your editorials all year, and can’t wait for the rest!

  8. Aisha
    December 6, 2016 at 9:32 am (6 years ago)

    Thank you for writing this brilliant, super-charged piece. Like the commenter before me rightly stated, it is so very relevant to today. The way things are overlooked or immortalized, and even celebrated. These are some dark times.
    I’ve always looked forward to your holiday editorials. The imagery, the styling, the text- gosh.. just beautiful.

  9. Rachelle
    December 6, 2016 at 2:44 pm (6 years ago)

    Beautiful! I’ve missed a lot of posts being pregnant (& sick) and having a newborn. Glad to be back and in covet-mode as I’m stuck in boring nursing bras for a while.

  10. Aliya
    January 28, 2017 at 7:51 am (6 years ago)

    I’ve always been into mythology but I didn’t know Persephone was raped! All this time I thought of Hades as this Eeyore type of guy who was tricked by his brother into becoming god of the underworld. But there are similar stories in the bible of women forced to marry their rapists. The fact that our bodies evolved to lubricate as a fear response to minimize trauma is something else I learned about recently that pisses me off. I can’t help but wonder what goes on in the mind of a man who can romanticize rape.
    But that set is gorgeous and I find your choice of backdrop nicely suits the subject matter.
    As far as 2016 goes, lets let it serve as a reminder not to be passive but to struggle and fight for our six months of sunlight.

  11. Persephoneunderground
    November 20, 2017 at 1:52 pm (5 years ago)

    I know this is an old post, but you nailed it! I’ve always been drawn to the character and stories of Persephone, I even use her as my casual screen name. I’m a proudly raging feminist, though, so parts of her story are disturbing to me too, exactly as you wrote, though I’ve always seen it depicted as less direct than a rape, but haven’t looked deeply into that either because I love her character and don’t really want to see it that way, but kidnapping and entrapment in marriage is messed up enough. The pomegranate is the sexiest fruit though- easy to recast as a “forbidden fruit” kind of metaphor depending on the reading, which I suppose is what makes it such an intriguing story. I love your discussion of it here, and have had similar thoughts about her rebirth as a powerful Queen. Aphrodite even borrows beauty from her in one story, interestingly.


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