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Sweets, what size are you? I want to know if I can wear the things you review!
I deliberately don’t include a lot of details about the sizes I wear. I’m tall, broad-shouldered, struggle with things like gloves and shoes, and I’m in the full-bust market. Other than that, I don’t get too specific. There are a few reasons why. The first is a selfish one: my mind can start to run a bit obsessively over some of my anxieties, and for my own mental health I try to focus on how I feel more than what I weigh. I no longer own a scale. I don’t want my size at any given point in time written down in black and white, simply because it can be a bit triggering for me. If you do want more details than I provide in a given post, please feel free to email me.
The other reasons are more philosophical. In my own experience, it’s been tempting to evaluate myself in relation to another woman by comparing our sizes. It’s weird, it’s perverse, but I have in the past found myself saying “I am lesser/I am greater than she” simply based on the sizes we wear and the implied ease or difficulty either of us has in finding clothes. I want to address some of the fit issues and difficulties that affect lots of different shapes and sizes of women, and I hope that by removing my personal specifics from the mix, it will be easier to look at the situations objectively. I also think we attach a lot of psychological weight and importance to the numbers/letters on the tag. It’s why we aspire to be “a size six” or “a size twelve” and think “I can’t possibly be a D-cup.” These labels can be really limiting, and I think it’s much more important in any given situation to focus on fit, not on size. One woman may have bras in her lingerie drawer with labels reading 32G, 34FF, 32FF, and 34H, and they might all fit her equally well (I know, I know, it’s maddening. That’s why I’m here). I will try to indicate if an item runs “true to size” by comparing it to other items where possible.
Exception: I wear size 11 shoes and Tall pants, and if y’all find cute ones, holler at me right away!